Don't worry, I read your post. >_>
I see what you mean, and don't really have anything against that.
But still, With those hyped up Vizard abilities, you'd think he'd go on an owning rampage and generally be tons of awesome but noooo... He has to get owned by someone who isn't even the strongest... >_>
You have to bear in mind that Ichigo is still pretty inexperienced with his hollow mask. Plus, it'd just be extremely dull if he instantly owned everyone due to a special ability.
Another thing you have to bear in mind is that the only arrancar that "owned" Ichigo in Hueco Mundo was Ulquiorra. There's a very good chance that Ulquiorra used to be a Vasto Lorde before being made an arrancar. And It's been stated that just ten Vasto Lordes would be enough to defeat all of Soul Society. When you consider that, it's not surprising he owned Ichigo.